Now what? Use the patented pump and twist technique with your hand as you bob up and down. When you’re on the receiving end of oral sex, you have to be comfortable with all the attention, temporarily, focused on you. Spit on it. The Bold And The Beautiful Cast Ask him if he is enjoying you sucking his cock. that I liked men and more to the point that I liked to please men. Pull his balls out. By giving a loving blowjob that goes beyond simply trying to make him cum and shows him you love his cock – you show him you love his masculinity, something society also values very highly and a blowjob becomes empowering – your loving attention assures him of his manliness. It should be somewhere you are both comfortable and don’t have to worry about anything except the blowjob. A car can be a fun place for fellatio but for your safety I don’t recommend road head while driving. I want this to be the best you ever had. If you plan how to do it together, it won’t give him the same shocking adrenalin rush as an impromptu blowjob.
Men are visual, so feeding his visual sense is a huge turn on. this is not a psychology paper and the author is not a psychologist, but what follows generally holds true for most guys. Take Your Time Sex should be savored, never rushed. I want you to cum for me. Never show that you feel any part of the job when giving a blowjob. You can also insert a prostate massager while you suck him off like Rude Boy from AdamMale. Being on top of him makes him feel safe and wanted. Once your finger is in there comfortably, playfully ask him to tighten his sphincter for as long as he can (he wont be able to do this for longer than 20-30 seconds). In fact, thats precisely how you should think about giving a blowjob its not a sprint to the end, its more of a slow, steady pace to climax. You can give a blowjob anytime, but at the right time a good blowjob becomes an amazing blowjob that he’ll never forget. If you end up feeling guitly about it – that’s the guilt of selfishness. Lets start by helping him concentrate on desire, rather than fear of your hard dick.